Def throw your own. I did and it was wonderful - Saturday just gone! All the people in my life who would have thrown me one are o'seas, so it was the only option! I just had the RSVPs to mine and my husband's email address to avoid phone numbers and it was all so easy.

This way - you get what you want and you get to do it your way! After all - it is your baby! AND - another excuse to eat cake - as if we need any more of those!

Best of luck
Christine