What is it about second pregnancies that makes people think that you dont need to be looked after and as spoilt as you may have been for the first? I am sick of people thinking that because I have done it before that I am some kind of expert baby making machine that doesn't need as much support as the first time!! :mad:

Of course you should have a baby shower!! You should be spoilt!! Hey, why not have a mummy shower too?? Get everybody to buy YOU gifts and give you back rubs and foot rubs!! HeHe!!