Is it a boy or a girl? Why do you want to know?

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I've even encouraged my kids to be cheeky if people ask. The other day miss 7 pipes in "yelp we know what it is, it's definitely a BABY!'

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To be honest - yes I think you are taking the colleagues comment too seriously (I don't think your ideas on not wanting to create opinions based on gender are necessarily wrong though). I believe people ask that question because they want to show an interest, it seems these days there is very little you can say to/ask a pregnant lady - but people ask questions/make statements to acknowledge, I think assuming that she has a preoccupation with nursery color is stretching it a bit.