All of our family lives interstate and we're getting them to come down after Kynan's born. My mum & DH's mum really wanted to be there for the birth and the 1st couple of weeks but we managed to convince them it wasn't a good idea. So my parents aren't coming down until July (bubs is due in June) and DH's mum is coming down in December for Kynan's 1st Christmas. DH and I really want some time to just settle in and get used to it being our family before we have everyone decending on us and telling us how we should be doing things etc.