i understand it must be hard for you guys unfortunatly people can be mean, you and DH have made the decision to have another bubs and thats your business and not theirs!! i hope apart from all the comments that your family and friends ARE happy for you and YOUR family. God you have kids close together and people comment, have them a few years apart and people are constantly asking when your having another, YOU CANT WIN!!! sorry hun you feel like this but sending you big hugs :hugs: