Hi Kim, IKEWYM, we copped all those comments and still 20weeks on are still copping them. But you know what, it is exactly what you have said, they are the best things that have happened to us. I can't wait to have the two grow up together, hopefully they will be there for one and other in their older years. And try to look at it this way, because they are so close you should be able to get away with the terrible 2's once, the teething once, and they could share most of there toys. I definately know it's hard to ignore them, but do try to babe, they aren't worth it. You have been blessed, and you know it, I know sometimes it hard but just try and ignore comments that get you down.
Good luck at your appointment. Can't wait to find out how you go!!