Kim,

I agree it's about them not you. I saw a woman yesterday at the shops with what looked like a 5yo, a 3yo, a 10 month old (well similar in age to Charlie anyway) who was heavily pregnant, and all I could think of was how blessed she was. Had I had a chance to speak to her, I would have told her too.

So ignore the negative comments. There's a saying 'if you don't have anything nice to say, then don't say anything' and I think this is especially true of pg women!