My cousin is quite looking forward to calling me fatty... that doesn't bother me so much, just strangers doing it, or malicious comments would.

Wheatie, could you not just just turn around and tell people that just because they weren't sure how it happened doesn't mean everyone's as ignorant and your babies have both been very much planned and wanted.

I love making rude people feel stupid!

My SiL is really short and showed very early, I'm tall and don't have much fat on me, but it will be a while before I really show anything I think. Ah well, just have to keep telling myself that it just means fewer people who want to touch me and baby!