How dare she say that about vaginal delivery! Our bodies are made to deliver any baby we create! Grrr... !!
Have a look at dubdubdub dot homebirth-only dot com and look in the homebirths part.. These are all tiny women that give birth to big babies.. without medical intervention because they know they are fine.
Aparently big babies are hereditry, and my mum had 5 babies, the smallest being 8p 13oz and the rest being over 9 and a half. And my mum aint no giant thats fo sure! Oh and she never tore (bar one)