hey all, thanks for all your reassurance!
i had another check up yesterday and they now are not sure when his due date is...they noticed that:

their computer records show me as being 37weeks tomorrow
my dating scan from last year shows me as being 35weeks on sat
AND my growth scan from last week shows me as being 36 weeks tomorrow.....

we have been going by the dating scan that puts my due date as 18th june. so im back again for another check up next week that i think will involve investigating if/how ripe i am *sigh* not that im too fussed if im further along than 1st thought! it just means DF & i need to get off our asses and get a bit more organised!!!! it also means my dad doesnt know whether or not to cancel his business trip to china at the end of May, hes already told me i hav to keep my legs crossed until at least 4th june! LOL!!

but oh well i guess he'll arrive when he feels like it which means (going by the pregnancy) will be at THE MOST inconvenient time possible.