To all ladies pregnant or not,you are all beautiful in your own way,believe in yourselves,learn to love what you have or what you can`t have,you don`t need your partners or husband telling you otherwise,I?m a cuddly woman and my hubby loves my curves,but it would be a turn off to some,but who cares,my husband loves me for who I?m and he is even more grateful for sharing every pregnancy and being able to give him children.Sometimes I think it`s the men who are insecure and need to get over themselves,( not all men ) if only they realy knew what it was like to be pregnant and to give birth,they would appreciate us more.This should be a happy time for all you lovely woman,so love yourselves and take care.