On the topic of LTTTC, I was very careful about what I wore even when pregnant around my older sister. I wore looser garments and made a conscious effort not to rub my belly. I didn't want to hurt her feelings because she had trouble TTC. If I was in public I would not rub my belly on purpose to hurt TTCers. In the end DD was so active that it was more to sooth her and hold her in utero.