dachlo - I think I'd be scared of falling asleep if I was feeding in bed. I think I'll make myself up a nice cozy corner in the baby's room. Should get a nice rocking chair

There seems to be so many suggestions re SIDS that it's hard to know what to do and what not to do. I think still not enuf is known, and suggestions seem to always be changing. I'm hoping just a monitor with the baby will calm my fears enuf.

recommend that the babies sleep in the same room (but not co sleep) as there parents for the first six months. something to do with the baby and mother being in sinc with their breathing
I don't want the baby learning to breathe like DH! He has verry irregular breathing at night. Bit of a worry sometimes. (Hope it's not hereditary!)

But yeah.. I agree, my ideas will no doubt change as things progress. Just like we have all these ideals on how we'll discipline our kids, and teach them to read nice and early etc etc. I've heard it all before from other people, and when it comes time, it doesn't always work like that. heheh. But I know I'm definitely reading to my belly (DH too) as soon as baby has ears!