Ok I'm not sure whether or not I'm making a big deal out of this or not but I wanted to see if other first time Mum's had their own mother in the birth suite for the labour??

My hubbie and I have had long discussions about this and feel we would like to do it on or own without my Mum there, however when I told her she seemed to be a bit upset like I didn't want her involved at all which is not the case.

I know with my sister and her first Bub my Mum was their and her hubby was very uncomfortable with her being their aswell. We don't want to start this beautiful journey my hubbie and I are about to embark on with resentful and uneasy feelings.

I think I just need reassurance that it's not always common for the mother of the bubs Mum to be in the delivery room.