M has said he doesn't find pregnant women sexy. He still wants to cuddle and kiss me and tells me he thinks I "glow" and am gorgeous... but not in a sexual kind of way. It upset me during the first pg, especially after he was there for the birth and all, and I thought that it would be impossible for us ever to have more kids because he would never want to have sex again with me! But here I am - pregnant again (and kind of accepting of the whole no-sex-during-pregnancy thing!) and I know that after the birth of this baby it will be all good again. So I know it seems so unfair and I would definitely talk to him about how he feels, but just from my experience, once I'd had the baby, my DH was able to see me as "me" again, rather than as a host-organ LOL