We found out and I originally wanted to keep it a secret but MIL really chucked a tanti and wanted to know so we told everyone. I must admit I don't think it would have been a secret for long as I started refering to the baby as a 'he' and 'him' so they would have found out anyway.

But as someone said before, we have so many clothes now that I doubt we will need to buy any for him for some time so thats one less thing to worry about.