For the first two we didn't find out, and were happy with the surprise. DH didnt want me to find out this time, but I was determined I would and I did. Twice now lol.

But even though an ultrasound tells me its a girl, I don't think it will take away from the surprise of first seeing her and who she is. That part thrills me more.
I am wondering more about her size, her hair, and when she will appear....and all the other little mysteries they come with. Knowing she may be a girl, gives me an excuse to squeeze in a couple of pink outfits here and there....hehehe!

I think compromise is the key. I told hubby when I find out, and he was disappointed at first...then he turned around and said "hmmmm...another girl" in a funny tone! My MIL is adamant she doesnt want to know....so I have to hide all the lil pink things hehe!

Goodluck. Jac