I think i will just sit tight for the next 6 months and enjoy just relaxing and not doing much else.. i will also be taking ur advice and joining a mothers group etc once baby comes cos i honestly cant see myself staying friends with anyone that im friends with now. And hey why force friendships just so i can have 'friends' now! Its silly. Thankyou girls for helping me to realise this
Am feeling better today.. i think i was a bit hormonal.. i'd already had a cry earlier yesterday cos dh was going away.. i think it was just an emotional day!
A big thankyou once again!!! xxx
ps Chepie- Is there any playgroups/mothers groups in ur area u cld join??
Glad you're feeling better. And yes - join mothers groups, play groups, swimming lessons etc as there are potential new friends all over the place just waiting for you.
Reet - glad you are feeling better babe xxx Yes I too need to pulll my finger out and join a group!!! I noticed that you are in FNQLD - we are hoping to make a move to Cairns - if you are near there we can hang out !!!
We moved 8 weeks ago to toowoomba where I don't know anyone except one other army wife. I feel so lonely and realised I have no one but DH, but at the same time I cannot be bothered going out and trying to make friends.
When we do socialize with the other guys DH works with (who moved from wagga as well so I'm friends with them) I don't want to go anymore! I just want to stay home with dh, I don't want to share him.
So yes I feel incredibly lonely and also know it's mainly my fault, but being pregnat is hard when you are the only one! Maybe try to get into prenatal yoga (I start next week) or aqua aerobics where you will meet other pg women.
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