Jes you are not alone. It's extemely unfair for him to force a decision upon you. It sounds as though he hasn't even bothered to find out if you want a baby. You're not a teenager either, for goodness sakes.

I can only imagine the decision to have an abortion is extremely difficult. I personally couldn't do it unless the circumstances were extenuating - not because I'm not against it - just because it would be a very difficult thing to do. I would have been a single mother before being given an ultimatum.

My DH took both announcements of pg pretty hard because he's a "financial worrier", but he loves his sons and would never give them up. Why you should compromise on having a baby doesn't seem fair to me.