Hi Gecko

Firstly I want to say - never give up

I'll give you a little background about me first of all. Ds1 was conceived on the pill, when he was 15mo we decided to try again for #2. Never in our dreams did we realise how long that would take. After a couple of laps, endless rounds of clomid (IVF was never an option for us), 3 years later we conceived Ds2 (on the third cycle of clomid). After he was born we decided that we would not go on birth control and try for #3. Again, endless rounds of clomid, laps, other tests, more fertility drugs and finally a diagnosis of PCOS (having numerous breaks from TTC just for sanity reasons) we finally fell pg 10 years later, sadly that ended in m/c. 18 months later (yes, more clomid, more tests - a couple more sessions of breaks) and I'm finally pg again.

I had charted since my m/c and only in Jan/Feb this year decided to give charting a break - at the same time I also took a break from actively TTC. Because of my age, I talked DH into giving it one more try - just another 6 months - if nothing happened then, I was happy to let go. I had him agree to go have a sperm analysis and had actually been to see my gyno to get the request forms for that and for blood tests for me and for another script for yet another fertility drug. Little did I know at the time I was already pg (conceived naturally). All those request forms are still sitting on my bedside table.

On this cycle, I O'd on day 14/15 (I actually feel O pains) and we DTD on days 11, 13 & 16. The chart is attached to my signature, although I did have to override it, as FF changed my O day to day 27.

All the best, I hope that your BFP is only around the corner. Remember miracles do happen. (BTW, I got my BFP for my birthday, bub is due for Christmas - couldn't ask for a nicer pressie.)