For DH he was right there with me when I tested. Well not in the bathroom but you get what I mean..

with Ds1 we told people to their face although with my mum I was scared so she got told over the phone

With our other 3 we got Ds1 first to announce it to my mum.. with Ds3 we got Ds2 to ring the inlaws and when we found out about DD we got Ds3 to ring SIL..

We just changed who found out first each time

With our losses I am not sure why but we just announced it ourselves. Maybe we knew on a deeper level it wasn't going to end well but either way they were announced like the others