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    Sorry this might be long..

    well with our 1st BHL had been away for 3 mths and I had rung him up when he had been away for about 3 weeks to tell that the test results for his sperm test had come back and we were told that he has a short supply and that it would take us longer that the average jo to have a baby ( it had alreally been 18 mths ) but as we were only 20 doc didnt want to try anything yet. So we thought that when he got back we would go to a new doc and start thing rolling anyway when he had been away for about 10 week I was feel really run down had the flu and just felt crappy so took myself to a new doc and he asked if I could be PG I told him No and told him about our results and way he had a poke around told me to take the pee test that there is was a big fat Plus I had been PG the whole time we must have fallen just after his test and just before he left.. Anyway I then had to ring him and tell my BHL that we were PG and that yes it is his ( well he had to ask ) so the next time he came home I was 4.5 mth PG with big boobs ( the first time ever ) and a not so little pot...

    With our 2nd we had been tring for 2 year and once again had just had all the test but this time the GP was really nice and once realised that BHL count was even less than last time sent us to the gyno who was a real pig, as he kepted saying how great it was to look at young overies for onces and then looked at BHL's results and told us that if we were 10 years older ( we were 23) he would start stright away with helping us but as we were so young and had so much time he didnt want to see us for a year.. Still makes me mad who cares who old we were.. anyway I stoped all caffine and we went wild for the next mth and you we got PG so this time we were both watching the two lines come up I started to cry as did he then we had to go out with mil and fil and act as though nothing was different....

    for our 3rd we had only just started trying ( 3 mths ) when I just new I was PG I told BHL he didnt believe me so we took a test then he still wouldnt believe me as the line was very faint so we waited a few more days and the line was nice and strong we were both very happy even if BHL may have felt a bit ripped off as he thought he had a good 6 mths of trying before we would once again head of to the doctors LOL ...

    Sorry if this was a bit long a boring...
    Last edited by New Dawn; January 23rd, 2008 at 10:49 AM.

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