Hi, I'm new to this group. Anxiously googling the subject because I'm so dismayed and hurt that I am searching for some support. I have told very few people about the pregnancy and hence miscarraige so I feel like I have no where to go to talk.

I took the Plan B pill and a pregnancy resulted. I miscarried at 9 wks. As a result I am grieving as anyone would however my partner feels that I didn't want this child because of this and led to me "killing" the baby. I have a daughter from a previous relationship and he feels that I preferred that pregnancy and didn't kill that man's child so why have I killed his.

I am shocked. I am horrified. I feel like I need support and someone telling me it isn't my fault and understanding I lost a child not blame me so viciously. I don't know if I can ever move past these comments to work on this relationship. Has anyone else ever had such a strong intense reaction to having a miscarriage from their partner? I don't know if this is a normal reaction that men frequently feel when their partners miscarry.

Some insight would be much appreciated.