thanks girls for your replying
I have spoken to DH and he is very understanding but i kind of feel he doesn't "get it" i mean he was there at the birth of DS and was extremely supportive but it's the hardest thing to explain what the body goes through and how it feels,

i posted my birth story a little while back and it certainly helped, i'm wondering if that's enuogh though.

I just know i want more children and i never wanted a large gap between them but i am worrried i dont feel the same way as i did before TTC DS, i think maybe i am stressing too much