I am so disappointed

[Trillian]

Hun, maybe you would like to join the closed group for Gender dissapointment? It will give you a more private space to digest all this and work through everything that you are feeling ATM

[~Trish~]

Oh what a shock . I'm so sorry you were told the wrong gender, it is a lot to take in at this late stage .

[RhiChiChi]

To be honest, when I first started reading your post - I was getting a bit peed-off to say the least (4 m/c & ttc # 2 for 16 months), but then I read further about you being told it was a girl, selling all your boy items etc... and I feel really quite sad & somewhat disappointed for you. I think Trillian's suggestion to go to the Gender Dis thread would be a good idea. I hope you can find some peace.

[boomba]

Oh hun Wish there was more I could say xxxx

[squidipa]

wow i am shocked also, wow how could they get it wrong my head says. for all of you is all i can say or do i know how reserved you were when told a girl you were so suprised and just when your so close to be told they ahd it wrong is so unfair.
sweet
xoxox Kitty

[ladybird11]

Huge hugs hun

I wish there was more I could say.

[Miss H]

You better make it clear to your boys now that you demand alot of little granddaughters in years to come. You will have so much fun spoiling them. Lots and lots of hugs to you.

[Tiff+2]

Oh you poor thing. I don't know what to say so I just wanted to give you a big
Hope you're feeling better about it all soon.

[My Three Sons]

Oh i am so sorry to hear your hopes for a little princess have been dashed. I can't imagine what you are going though now after hearing it is a girl, and them now telling you it is a boy.
I hoped so much that my 3rd little bubba was going to be a girl. But i guess thankfully i found out he was a boy at 20 weeks, so it gave me a long time to process it. certainly look at joining the gender disappointment forum. I am sure you will find a lot of support there from women who have been in a similar situation to yours.

Hugs again!

[beckoes]

I cant belive they got it wrong, im so sad for you! I totally understand that you would feel like you have lost 'your girl'! I hope you find some good support!! HUGS to you!!

[Toomanytoomany]

To be honest, when I first started reading your post - I was getting a bit peed-off to say the least (4 m/c & ttc # 2 for 16 months), but then I read further about you being told it was a girl, selling all your boy items etc... and I feel really quite sad & somewhat disappointed for you. I think Trillian's suggestion to go to the Gender Dis thread would be a good idea. I hope you can find some peace.

Me too - and then I remembered how I felt when they told me that baby #6 was a boy, after five girls, and how I nearly fell off the ultrasound table. Gender disappointment had always been one of my big OHNOYOUDIDN'T! issues, but now I know what I'd have felt like if later on they'd said they'd made a mistake and it was another girl. I know I'd have got over it and loved the baby just the same, but yeah, you've got this picture in your mind of the baby you were having, you had hopes and dreams attached to that, and you have to let those go now, and there will be hurt involved in that.

I hope that the hurt isn't too bad, and that you are able to enjoy the rest of your pregnancy. I hope you get some time to buy some special little things for your wee little boy.