Hun, I had a friend say to me that once you're done, you know you're done- you don't question it, and that's how you know. I don't know if that's true or not, but the fact that you're thinking about it maybe means you're not done, iykwim? I imagine there would be a fair bit of grief involved in being 'done' too, and you'd have to let yourself work through it.
FWIW, I find i feel completley differently about most things when I'm pg to what i do normally. maybe this is a question best left until you have bubs, and after the babymoon is over. All that exhaustion, pain and sickness can take their toll mentally as well as pyschically.
It might be your last, it might not, but now is not the time you should be making your mind up for sure! I agree that a larger gap mightn't be a bad thing, if that's a possibility for you and your family.
For us, we want to start TTC next year, and I'm 95% certain she/he will be the last one. In that way, I'm kind of looking forward to a whole lot of "last times" eg "This is the last time I will have to feel like hell every evening/morning/day" (whatever time m/s decides to hit), or "This is the last time I will feel this kind of back pain" etc, etc. I really didn't feel that last time, and that was the thing that convinced me that #2 was not the last for me, iykwim.
Maybe your second trimester energy is taking a while to kick in, as well? You might feel a bit better as you get further on. Take it easy
thats certainly how I felt during my third pg. Now I think i will prob still have another, but only after a long gap (at least 5 yrs or longer), but then i am only 27yrs old - so i guess if I were older that tit may very well have been he last pg. IYKWIM?
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I agree that a larger gap mightn't be a bad thing, if that's a possibility for you and your family. 
I really didn't feel that last time, and that was the thing that convinced me that #2 was not the last for me, iykwim. 
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