Hun, I had a friend say to me that once you're done, you know you're done- you don't question it, and that's how you know. I don't know if that's true or not, but the fact that you're thinking about it maybe means you're not done, iykwim? I imagine there would be a fair bit of grief involved in being 'done' too, and you'd have to let yourself work through it.

FWIW, I find i feel completley differently about most things when I'm pg to what i do normally. maybe this is a question best left until you have bubs, and after the babymoon is over. All that exhaustion, pain and sickness can take their toll mentally as well as pyschically.

Big hun.