I think it's great to get varied advice so to see all different spots on the spectrum of opinions (I will be watching this thread for my own interest too ) but in the end, its what is best for you sweety!!
But I must admit that I agree with BellyBelly in taking the course of least intervention (if possible for you) and then go from there................................but whatever the course that is taken to get munchkin out, as long as both you and bubby are H&H at the end, it was the best course of action for you.........whatever it ends up being (if that makes sense! )

Thinking of you hun!