yeah I am going to be easily swayed i guess, when pregnant and waiting for the 20 week scan to tell us, who knows i could change my mind and want to know and DH may decide he doesnt want to know (that's what he said) so it could go either way i guess.
I think if DH found out i would want to know too!!! Because its something we share together you know? And i would be worried he would let it slip out to someone else therefore someone may know the sex before i do! that wouldn't be very good!!!!
Is it cruel if a woman says to her DH "you arent going to find out until the birth" and tells the sonographer (or whoever they are called!) not to tell either of us!??
does that happen? what are the DH's rights then? Does he have a right to know? I think so...
im just curious as to how we should go about it so that our DH's aren't feeling like they arent important in the decisions etc
i mean we havent even talked about all this but i just want to know what ppl do so that i am not put in a position! I want my DH to feel happy about it all and if he wants to find out then he should have that right hey?
Last edited by {sarah}; October 31st, 2007 at 08:13 AM.
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