Big hugs sweetie, what a stressful time for you ATM! I hope you got some good rest hun. I think you should write this letter, because by the sounds of it both you and your hubby want to go to the hossy you've already given birth to all your babies. And it's nice and close too. One point over is so silly, they should allow you to birth there IMO. What do the hossy want you to do? You are pg for goodness sake, so your weight will be going up, what weight do they want you to be?????? Seriously, appeal the hossy's decision and fight it. I would, and then at least you're doing something about it and hopefully your hubby will see that you're fighting it and you're not taking it laying down. I think deep down he is feeling angry at how you are being treated & is taking it out on you!
Let us know how you go hun and please try not to stress too much.
It does sound like he needs a it of a cool down preiod to let him digest whats going on. That doesn't change the fact that he was really quite hurtful with some of the things he said you sweet .
Yes I still think as the others have said you still have 2 options: try & work on your BMI between now & then; & write your letter of complaint about how they treated you.
But he is the father of your child....so what's wrong with him helping you to stand up for yourself & bub with the hospital???? Why does it have to be solely your responsibility? He could've written the letter complaining about how his wife was treated.
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