It does sound like he needs a it of a cool down preiod to let him digest whats going on. That doesn't change the fact that he was really quite hurtful with some of the things he said you sweet .

Yes I still think as the others have said you still have 2 options: try & work on your BMI between now & then; & write your letter of complaint about how they treated you.

But he is the father of your child....so what's wrong with him helping you to stand up for yourself & bub with the hospital???? Why does it have to be solely your responsibility? He could've written the letter complaining about how his wife was treated.