when i rang the hospital to confirm the bmi, the midwife basiclly yelled down the ph at me, said that the bmi is taken at time of book in and thats what they go with.

but in my other thread, i was 15 weeks and bmi of 47 3 yrs ago and birthed there, this time i was 16 weeks bmi of 46, the only thing that changed was the head of o & g, so i think he changed the bmi, cause i was told told 3 yrs ago it was 49, but when i rang to confirm, all they would tell me was that it was 45 and has been for yrs!

but non of that helps the fighting with hubby.
i know he will calm down, i understand this is not what he wanted