I think it is normal to feel tired and mopey during pregnancy. I think I probably did the first time, but I was at work and that made a big difference. Being home with a toddler means that you don't have to shower and get dressed, sometimes you just mope around in your pjs. And rather than taking a break when you are tired you do something easy like put the kids in front of the tv.

First pregnancy I let a lot slide. I'm not sure what DH ate or where he found clean clothes, I was asleep or lying on the couch. Now I'm trying to still do everything, but I can't and I feel bad that DD is the one who suffers.

I took DD to the library this morning and out for lunch and it felt really nice to do something for her.