Cammie,

I don't think you've done it the wrong way, it's your way. We don't know the sex and haven;t told a sole the names we picked.

My DH desperately wanted to know originally, but now is looking forward to the surprise. Me - I had excitement issues (like I wasn't in the slightest) and felt I needed something as a surprise at the end. I aslo desperately want a girl (yes I will love it no matter what) and didn't want to feel any hint of disappointment if told otherwise. I will love what I'm given, when it's given to me.

Just goes to show, everyone's different and has their own reasons.cIf they think it's wrong they can have another baby and make their own decision when the time comes.