We didn't find out with #1 - didn't want too. I wouldn't have found out with #2 either, but DH REALLY wanted to know, and my dd was walking around telling everyone she was having a 'sisterbrother' so we thought it was probably best to end the confusion for her.

It's been good actually because she got over the whole 'I wanted a sister' thing early on and now she's excited about her baby brother.

I don't think there's anything right or wrong about finding out or not. That said, before this one, I always wondered how people found out early and 'ruined' the surprise. Now I can see both sides....

Good luck with your pregnancy and enjoy your surprise!!

Bel