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  1. #1
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    Jul 2008
    summer street
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    Hugs to you too raffy. Maybe it's a third pg thing? Like our bodies are just adjusting without us noticing. I can't believe I would miss ms. It was horrendous this time but it was reassuring.
    I will update on Tuesday after the scan.

  2. #2
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    Dec 2007
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    Lol mine is third baby too? What is with that? I think part of the worry is that this baby was conceived naturally not ICSI or FET like my last two. I can't help but worry if it is strong enough... I want it so badly to be ok. My early scan isn't until Wednesday week, don't know how I'll get there! I'm worried... all the time! My MS comes and goes and I can't remember when it really kicked in with the other two

    I am sure everything will be ok on Tuesday Arcadia... I look forward to your happy post. Also, do you mind me asking... Do you feel your bump is smaller than at the same stage with other two children?

    Raffy - hope everything is ok with your little darling too xx

  3. #3
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    Mar 2008
    North Northcote
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    I had dread the whole way with DD3s pregnancy. I wonder if it has to do with the fact that we dont get the same time to focus on the belly and pregnancy as we did in our previous pregnancies? I know that i was, at times, so insanely busy and wrapped up in the antics of the world and my two older kids that I didnt get to honor the baby growing inside of me enough. With DD3 i didnt feel any good movement until close to 20-23 weeks. it was really scary and confronting as with DD2 I felt movement from 10-11 weeks.

    much love arcadia

  4. #4
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    Nov 2009
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    Perhaps you're right Arcadia, maybe our bodies are just like 'sweet! Done this a few times before' lol I look forward to seeing your happy post on Tuesday

    Thank you tippytoes

  5. #5
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    Mar 2007
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    I was the same, so anxious. I only told a couple of friends about it because I was sure it wasn't going to work out. When I would talk about having the baby I would say to DH 'if we have this baby in January...' I don't know why, just preparing myself for the worst or something. Not believing I could really be this lucky again.

    I've never had the maternal screening for ds before and I'm wondering if this anxiety is actually about discovering something wrong with baby. For the other two I've just accepted I will cope with whatever, but this time I have other children to worry about.
    This too! I was never worried about anything being wrong with the other two, I just assumed they would be healthy of course. This time I was really worried about it and certain I would be high risk!!

    But the important thing is my worry didn't mean anything, everything was/is fine.