Thanks everyone, you don't know how reassuring your posts have been to read.

Tippytoes yep my bump is much smaller than I expected. In fact now the bloating of very early pg has passed my stomach is flat most of the time. Not reassuring.

Cassius yes I think the busyness of life with children means the bump is ignored which makes the negative thoughts stand out more.
Your late movement is very reassuring too. Though I'm sorry you also had worries.

Heaven, do you think there is sense of testing fate? That three healthy babies is not possible? My midwife said in her experience the third pg is a wild card and boy am I feeling the wildness already!!!