Thanks everyone. It really is great to hear other peoples stories. I am getting a BT tomorrow due to the confusing array of symptoms but only BFN so far. My AF was due Friday just gone, came lightly and stopped the next day. I've never in my life had an AF that did that!!! Usually it's at least 4-7 days and HEAVY. I had cramps for the whole week leading up to my AF, my areola seem to be spreading daily (!) and everything tastes funny. But my boobs aren't sore and still only BFN. Today would be 14 days since we DTD. Anyway, it could be just a change in my cycle out of the blue...who knows.... If I was pregnant wouldn't the test have shown it by now??

The only other explanation is I seemed to have had a chemical m/s last month (is that what it's called?). Showed +ve twice but -ve on the day AF due and came as per normal. Otherwise that cycle was normal re the cramps etc. My areola didn't change and i had no symptoms that month even though i was +ve for a few days. Does anyone think the chemical m/s could have affected this months cycle?
Rach