some people just forget.
The people who have never had kids you take what they say with a grain of salt, and the ones that have had kids.. well i know they arent trying to scare you but sometimes they just dontthink.
The "get as much sleep as you can!" one drove me insane..
but what used to get to me was the birth horror stories.. noo one wants to hear about things going seriously wrong, i realise it happens, but when my time came, all i could think about is "WHAT IF IM IN LABOUR FOR THE NEXT 30 HOURS!!!!!" ya know, its comment slike that that i didnt like hearing lol.

and yes babies are tough, they are alot of work but any one who walks into parenting thinking its all easy has another thing coming. i really dont think theres one woman out there that has thought its all going to be easy, so im safe in saying that
but they are soo worth it. every hurdle you come to and manage to overcome is worth everything.