I can't decide what I want to do for this pregnancy either Nae.

For DD1 my bestie threw a surprise baby shower - high tea at a hotel in a CBD. This time I don't want to do anything since my mum won't be there. But then my bestie came up with an idea of buying plain baby clothes and everyone decorates something using beads/buttons/ribbons or whatever. I think I really like the idea.

Before reading this thread I had no idea what a Blessingway was - sounds lovely. I particularly Arcadia's idea of the beads for the birthing necklace. I agree with Keike, you need to get someone from BB to organise a surprise blessingway for you.