Im sorry people are being so rude.
We're lucky we rarely get comments, although sometimes people do the "Why would you want to know the sex?" Um because we can idiot :fuming:
Im a person who doesnt really like the idea of only children as a choice for me, but if someone else only wants one for whatever reasons then thats their choice and probably a wise one - no point having more kids than you can handle/want. Anyway everyone has told us that 99% of the time you change your mind on these decisions after youve experienced motherhood/parenthood so who knows.
I say ask them if theyd like to help you look after those extra children financially and physically you dont want but people feel you should have and see how fast they run