It's a little funny, but I cop both sides of this. When ppl ask whether this is my first baby, and I say it's my fourth, the usual reaction is FOURTH?? OMG! How do you cope??

Then when I explain that my first three are between 11 and 16, they ask if I'm intending to have any more coz this baby will be so lonely growing up at such an age difference between it and its siblings.

And all I say to that is make up your minds! Lol!

Honestly it's true. you can't win. There's always someone out there who has an opinion which will differ with yours. I reckon ignore them.

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sushee