Bec, that's awful. I can't believe you have been treated like this. At my first appt (10wks) I was seen by a different Dr as mine was away and he had a bit of an attitude and once he worked out my BMI, told me that my weight would have been why I had taken so long to conceive - all this without having any of my medical history, not knowing a thing about me at all. I was a bit put off by him. Anyway, I had to go to an appt at the hospital because I was a whole .5 over the BMI cutoff for the hospital for a physical by the anaethetist. Every other appt I have had I have been treated with respect and have been very happy. It was just that first appt and I am glad I don't have to see him anymore. I did end up with gestational diabetes, but so far BP has been great, everyone is happy and I have lost 4kg during the pregnancy with little effort. Now, my BMI is actually under that cutoff for the hospital! I think it makes a huge difference when you are treated well and you trust your care providers.
Is it too late to change OB's? I know I would be seriously considering it given his attitude.