He is a professional and what he has told you is a load of bs saying you will get this and that, like u said having a high bmi can contribute but far from means you WILL get these things.
At most public hospitals when u have to see the obs you can't pick who you do and don't want to see but you can say you only want to see a woman, I would consider that to avoid seeing an ob, who needs to see someone to make them feel bad?
I would also consider making a complaint about his unprofessional conduct! Maybe that sounds a bit over the top but the thing is from the sounds of things...i.e him calling you lazy..what the??? etc he was completely unconstructive. The thing is you are pregnant now and your bmi is what it is so if he was genuinely concern he should have offered information and advice on what you should do to avoid possible complications and have the best outcomes for everyone iykwim?
Wishing you a wonderfully happy and healthy pregnancy!!!!!!!
Last edited by Jas; February 25th, 2009 at 01:15 PM.
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