My baby just got diagnosed with having inuterine growth deficiency and to make matters worse they also suspect she has a heart condition which will require surgery soon after birth. So we are possibly looking at having to deal with a small possibly pre-term baby that needs open heart surgery.

I am currently 21 and a bit weeks and they will not be able to diagnose the heart condition with any certainty until 32 weeks. However the fetal cardiologist said his gut feeling was it will be an issue.

Im just finding it really hard to deal with. Im trying hard to stay positive.

Any advice on how to put it aside for the moment and enjoy at least some of my pregnancy?