My partner ALWAYS wants to DTD and honestly i have not got the energy. If i have energy he is lucky but normally i ask him if i can massage him instead.. (his back nothing kinky!!).. Then when i am almost asleep he asks me again. He counts the days inbetween, Apparantly its up to 8 (my bad) but i am so exhausted even thinking about it makes me more tired.
He understands and promptly goes to sleep. Mind you it is now 8.10am and i have been up since before 5am, he is still in bed. No wonder i am so tired!