i dont know why people feel the need to share these horrible stories with 'about to pop 1st time mums".
When was the last time you were accosted in the queue at the supermarket and told about a lovely calm birth, fully supportive medical staff and a lovely pink baby.....we need more of these stories from strangers
But i agree with what traveler said, If your OB had done something wrong and it had been 'dragged through the courts'' he wouldnt still be an OB as hard as it is, try to put these silly comments out of your mind.
I tell you what i LOVED when i was heavily pregnant, the look on the faces of other ladies with kids when they walked passed me in the street, that big knowing smile they give you that just says, "Your so lucky" "your about to meet your baby for the first time". That was enough to erase any negitive comments (most days anyway )
Hugs to you