As a midwife and mummy I get so many horror stories and alot are so far from the truth. Of course there is truth behind it but with time and many different re-counts things tend to become bigger and grander then they might have been at the time.

And it wouldn't matter who you go to for your antenatal care your Dr is going to have some horror cases that went wrong and resulted in something horrid happening that could have been prevented. They are not there with the woman all the time and despite technology (like scans, CTGs etc) it can be impossible to tell exactly what is going on sometimes and then look back with hind site and think what should have been done differently.

Best of luck for your impending birth and meeting your long awaited for
precious bubba.