I didn't have a birth plan because I didn't feel that strongly about certain things like who is to do what etc. I just wanted to go with the flow and make decisions as they came up. I was happy with that for my birth and will do the same next time.

In relation to pain relief, I went in aiming for a drug free birth, but keeping my options open. My DD was posterior so I was in lots of pain, I had the works- pethadine, gas and an epidural and don't regret any of it.

Good luck with your birth and enjoy your little bubby, it's the most wonderful experience ever!