Jenn,

how exciting that your big day is so close!

I was married 6 weeks ago, and I asked the head waiter to bring me apple juice & mineral water, which looks so like champagne that no one suspected a thing, even my sister who was my BM & already suspicious of my condition . But as a few other people posted, you can also get yourself so "busy" talking to people that I don't think that anyone even notices if you're holding onto the same glass for 2 hours anyway.

Hope you have a fantastic day!